morning commute

….when bus ride thigh-to-thigh contact is the most action I’ve gotten in months… 😟

Self help

I’ve been sitting here on this lovely Sunday watching dating self help videos all day long while dreaming the man I want will text me. Have I got nothing better to do than wait around for him? I’m a bit of an internal mess right now, borderline infatuation and over thinking. It’s like I’m certain

Swiping left

I keep swiping left looking for my destiny. Is my perfect mate out there? & is he on tinder? I could spend hours browsing all the online apps. I want to be okay without the comfort of male attention – but I just want it so bad. I want to find the one I can

Dating rant

I started dating someone new. Before we met in person he was constantly texting me, asking me lots of questions. We’ve been on two dates, in person we get along great, there’s attraction between us, and we’re always making plans for the next date. However, when it comes to texting during the weekdays, i haven’t

Hope & expectation

I’ve learned over the last several months to not hold people to your expectations. Just because you do something one way doesn’t mean others do it the same way. And this is okay. It does not make him or her a bad person. I’ve also learned not to have hope of the future. It is

Online dating tips for men.

I’m back on the online dating scene, and there are just a few things I’d like to get off my chest! Men, please do not do the following: 1. Post photos of you & the fish you caught – nobody cares. 2. Post group photos – I’m gonna hope you’re the hot one, and be

Must Have Hair

Dear Universe, I’m giving to you my list of dating standards. Please take my desires & deliver to me the man I’m supposed to be with. Alter or add to my list as you see fit. Thank you. Amen! -Standards- A man who is wildly, crazily in love with me A man who texts me

Tinder.

Is it possible to find love on Tinder? Last weekend out of boredom & loneliness, I reactivated my tinder account. I spent hours swiping through countless men, and not having an actual conversation with any. The action is something like this: swipe, swipe, too short, too tall, swipe, swipe, talked to him before, swipe, swipe,

Viewer Discretion is Advised

We have viewer warnings before TV shows and movies for violence, nudity & course language. The entertainment industry also needs to put disclaimers on Romantic films. Something like: The proceeding is a work of fiction. Happy endings, men proclaiming their true love & grand gestures of any kind are unreal & may leave you with

Thank you Marianne.

I love how Marianne Williamson describes Illumination. Illumination is the building of the passage, the construction of the spiritual tunnel through which the soul finds its way out of ego-bound darkness into mystical light. (Pg.24 from her book Illuminata.) I am taking this time, during Lent, to take a break from online dating. I’ve had